~MERMAID CROSSING~

Merlot

2010-04-20T18:55:00.000-07:00

Today my 13 year old Golden retriever went to heaven. She was the best dog anyone could ask for! We are all very sad, but we know she is happy and free of any pain!

Come One, Come All....

2010-04-01T15:55:00.000-07:00

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xoxo

Friends...

2010-03-21T21:22:00.000-07:00

I miss sharing my thoughts with everyone (no one?) so I thought I'd give it a try again... please stop by and say Hi! :)

L.F- I am SO excited to see you. Thanks for being such a good friend, despite the miles between us. You are my "Anyways" Friend.

B.R- We need to do girls nights out more often, you reminded me WHY I love you so much- I had a blast!!

S.D- Thanks for being my longest best friend. I will always cherish our memories!!

T.C- You will always be the one who can make me laugh, and pee my pants. Even though that may sound cheesy, it means a lot to me!!!

K.S- I don't think you read my blog, but I will always love you no matter what!

L.H- We have had soooo many good times together- I will NEVER forget them, ever. Thanks for being a part of my happy memories.

B.K- College was one of the best times in my life, and there is not one memory without YOU in them. Thanks for all that you did!!!

it's been a while...

2009-08-26T13:40:00.001-07:00

So I figured I would write a little. :) It is a hot day in So. Cal. but it's kinda a nice farewell to Summer. There are fires on Camp Pendleton, and I think LA is on fire a bit too. So sad.

Today I got my hair done for FREE at a super awesome Spa/Salon in Encinitas. An old high school friend is an intern there and he asked if I would be his "model". I have to be honest- it was the best hair cut and blow dry I have ever had! The spa itself was by far the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. It was very tranquil. They had an outdoor hair washing station, a private Yurt for massages and treatments, a palapa to sit under for when your color is processing..... and not to mention, the most beautiful, luscious garden I have ever seen! I got a relaxing treatment on my scalp complete with aromatic oils, and a wonderful neck head and massage. I just can't say enough good things about this place, or Ted, the new stylist there. Be sure to check it out if you get a chance! Here is the link: LemonGrass

In other news, Tommy is on his last leg of Paramedic School. He has just about 2 months to go! We are so proud of him and how hard he has been working to complete all the necessary certifications and required volunteer time requirements. He really truly is our Hero!

Paisley starts school on the 14th of September. It can't come soon enough. :) (that's all I need to say about that!)

Overall, life is pretty good these days. As long as there is a pool near with this hot weather, I am one happy Mama! :)

Golden Goddess

2009-08-18T14:33:00.000-07:00

10 days and it is my Golden Birthday!!!

Paisley

2009-08-09T21:56:00.000-07:00

HI. How are you? Things are good here..... we are just getting ready for Paisley to turn the big 4! For some reason this year, it really hit me. The past 3 years, I just knew she was getting another year older, but she was still my baby. That is gone now. :( I feel like we are more like buddies now. We have great conversations, we get along great.... it's so fun! You see, Tommy started work on Thursday and he has been in and out of the hospital (Volunteer time) on his off days. He comes home Mon. night, and normally I am standing at the front door with one eye twitching, ready for him to take over, but this time has been different! I kept us busy while he was gone. We went to the Zoo, went Horseback Riding, went to the beach, had dinner out, had breakfast in bed, and even went to Seaport Village in San Diego. Every day she has been such a good girl, and so easy going.

I wasn't feeling well on some of those days, and Paisley took such good care of me. She would fill up my water bottles when they were low. She would do all her chores without me asking!!! I mean- she was ON POINT! I think this is one of the things I am gong to enjoy about her getting older. She is very excited to do things, and help me out. Paisley is such a happy little girl, and so eager to make me happy. Of course, there are times where we are "off" but it never fails after a snack, or a nap.... she is back on point! Gosh I love this little girl!!!

Video Clip

2009-08-04T12:09:00.000-07:00

Paisley is still in gymnastics- we are taking a small break while she is in VBS. But isn't this sucj a cute video. This was during open gym one day.... Paisley loves Free Play!

I'm being Honest Here.....

2009-07-13T18:16:00.000-07:00

....I'm falling in Love with Walmart!

Targét still rocks the house on home decor, and clothes, but you can't beat Wally's food prices!!!

We just got back from my weekly trip to Super Walmart and it is lookin' good!!! There was even more stuff on the shelf, and it looks AMAZING!!! The people were very friendly (much to my surprise!) and I was actually smiling while I was there. I know!!! AMAZING!!!

While looking for a better juice option for Paisley, I stumbled upon a drink called "Honest Kids" it is USDA Organic, and they come in recyclable pouches (like Capri Suns, minus about 25 grams of sugar!) There is no High Fructose Corn Syrup and it has a full day's of vitamin C in them. We got the "Berry Berry Good Lemonade" and I am excited for Paisley to try it out! Oh- and it was only $3.98 making each pouch only $0.50! Yay! ;) HERE is the website!!!

Saving Money Challenge!

2009-07-07T13:07:00.000-07:00

OK- so I know it is Tuesday, and I really wanted to start this personal challenge on Monday, but we can just start a day late! :) What I want to do, is challenge ourselves to see in how many ways in our life we can save money. Whether it be by shopping at a different grocery store or by shopping online, (most grocery stores waive the delivery fee if you spend a certain amount!) there are so many ways to save money. I am SO on that Savings Train, and I want to challenge all you- my friends, to do the same! We may be dorks.... but at leas we'll have more money!!! :)

Here are some fun ways to save money!

1. Recycle, and cash it in.

2. Save your change in a change jar.

3. Cut Coupons

4. Price check at various stores

5. Write down everything you buy in one day, you'll be surprised!

6. Cook at home

7. Drive in a line (ie: plan out where you need to go in the day=saves gas)

8. Get rid of a home phone, and up your cell bill by only a few dollars! It works!

9. Pay off credit card bills faster, gets rid of high interest.

10. Go to the beach/park more often, and pack a lunch.

11. TURN OFF THE LIGHTS!!!!! (unplug too- it WILL save electricity!)

12. Only run the dishwasher/Laundry when it is a FULL load.

13. Pay the $8 to get your car washed. It uses less water and it is treated b4 it goes in the ocean where when at home, it goes straight into the ocean and uses almost 3x as much water!

14. Drink at home- not bars!

15. Make a shopping list, and ONLY buy what is on it.

** These are just a few ways to save money..... what do you do to save???

Overheard Playground Talk

2009-07-06T12:44:00.000-07:00

SO- I wanna tell you about my personal challenge, that I want you all to take part in. But first- I have to talk about my observations today at the park!

There were two little girls at the park playing together. They must have know each other from previous play dates, b/s there Mom's were sitting on a blanket together chatting away. (no where near the playground either!) The easiest way to refer to each little girl is by the color shirts they were wearing, one in green, and one in yellow. Here are the conversations I over heard.

Green: Can I be your Best Friend?

Yellow: Ummm... I don't know.

Green: Why? Puhleeeease!!!

Yellow: Ummm....No, because you don't do what I tell you to do.

Green: SUPER sad, and sits down.

Yellow: Trots away happily.

I don't understand little girls. Why do they have to ASK to be best friends? Shouldn't they just BE friends??? UGH!

Then, after I over heard that conversation, Paisley was off playing tag with some older kids, and they two girls (yellow and green) sat down (near me) and played with Paisley's sand toys. Paisley had already asked them if they wanted to sit and play with her- but the "yellow" said "NO!" and ran off. (do you see a trend?) This is what happened next:

Yellow: Let's play with these toys. They are mine.

Green: They are??? Ok!

Yellow: I am going to dig a hole.

Green: Okay, so am I

Yellow: NO you are NOT!! (takes sand toys away from green!)

*Paisley walks over now

Paisley: Hi! If you guys want to play with my sand toys, you need to share! (Atta girl!!!)

Yellow: No I don't, these are MY toys.

Paisley walks over to me and is sad. I tell her to go back and tell them that they are her toys and she is sharing. She does.

Yellow: Gets up and attempts to walk away with Paisley's buckets and shovels.

Yellow: Come on Green, this girl is mean!

ME!!!: Excuse me girls- if you want to play, these toys stay right here. These are her toys and she is sharing with you!

The two girls walked away toyless, and Yellow looked back at me and said "I don't like them!"

This is the one thing I can not stand about some little girls. I know it is most likely from the lack of parenting and Paisley WILL NOT , EVER be like this to anyone else. I expect her to be nicer, and kinder to other people. I started talking with some other mom about these two little girls, and her and I both agreed that not all little girls act like this. (WHEW!) It would kill me to know that Paisley talks down to other people and that she thinks she is better. Seeing this reminds me to constantly teach my daughter about kindness and compassion.

$UPER $AVING$..... (but I still {heart} Target!!)

2009-07-05T17:17:00.000-07:00

**EDIT** the prices line up on my end- they are just crooked on here- yes, it bugs me! ;)

O.K. So I am soooo excited right now, I had to blog about it. It's my 4th of July resolution ;)

I did a little grocery shopping today for some of our weekly stuff and I knew that our Walmart (across the street) was getting ready to have all it's cold foods in stock. You see, it's always been the ghetto, more white trash version of a Walmart, but for the past 6 months, they have been renovating it, making it a Super Walmart! All I have to say is- It is SUPER! I am in love. I can not wait until it is fully stocked! We have about 2 more weeks until it is finished, but I love how clean and shinny it looks!!! It makes me feel better about shopping at a Walmart! As far as the prices go- they are literally ONE DOLLAR cheaper, if not more, on EVERYTHING!! I bought some of my grocery items at Walmart- then went to Vons ( for my Organic stuff) and while I was there, I actually went and price compared the items I had just bought at Walmart. Here is the comparison:

Walmart Vons

Sara Lee Bread 2.48 4.19
Tampax Tampons 5.47 5.89
Jiffy PB 1.50 3.50
Eggo Pancakes 2.44 4.39
Coke Zero 3.99 5.99
Rice Krispies 3.99 3.99
Special K Strawberry 3.98 4.99
" " Blueberry 3.98 4.99

TOTAL: $26.83 $37.93 $$$11.10 in SAVINGS!!!!!!!!!!!

Those are just the things I bought this week- so I could compare, next week will be a bigger shopping trip, and I will price check again!!! I am so addicted to this saving money thing, I am going to start a Personal Challenge tomorrow. Come back and read what it is tomorrow!!!! :)

Hidy Ho!

2009-07-02T20:29:00.000-07:00

Hey everyone.... sorry I've been MIA lately!!! I have been spending a tremendous amount LESS, time on the computer!!! I am here, alive and well. Just busy!!! Should I keep this up and running??? Drop me a comment if you want me to keep it up..... even if it is occasional drive by's! ;)

2009-06-17T17:58:00.000-07:00

I decided to post this one out of them many readings I read a day, b/c I felt tlike it could touch a few peoples heart right now.... you know who you all are! ;)

" You must be happy now to bring happiness into your life through the law of attraction. It's a simple formula. Happiness attracts happiness. Yet people use so many excuses as to why they can't be happy. They use excuses of debt, excuses of health, excuses of relationships, and excuses of all sorts of things as to why they can't use this simple formula. But the formula is the law.

No matter what the excuse, unless you begin to feel happy despite it, you cannot attract happiness. The law of attraction is saying to you, "Be happy now, and as long as you keep doing that, I will give you unlimited happiness." "

Dear Santa....

2009-06-15T16:49:00.000-07:00

All I want for Christmas is for Liz and the girls to come to our LadyBug Picnic, also known as Paisley's 4th B-day party on August 15th at 10:30 in the morning. It WILL.NOT. be the same without them. Please work some magic.

Thanks,
A Queen "Bug"

"Furnt"

2009-06-09T08:25:00.000-07:00

Is this better Liz?

:)

"The Man Plan"

2009-06-04T09:09:00.000-07:00

From the book "The Man Plan" Here are a few ways to spark up your marriage!

"There is a chemical release in your brain that you can actually re create to get that new feeling in a relationship! (also known as the Honeymoon phase!)

*Novelty is Key to a marriage.

Go to a new restaurant, or if you can't do that, cook new meals or try new fruit!

Change your music. If you like country, try some new Arabic music! New music brings new moods into the home!

Chocolate is the ONLY knows aphrodisiac.

Change your sheets to spark up your love life. If you sleep on flannel, try Sateen for a month.

Change your perfume!!! He will think there is a new woman in the home! Vanilla and Grapefruit are scents that attract men. Grapefruit is a scent that gives men the impression that a woman is thinner and younger!

Go on a vacation. One summer trip a year WITHOUT kids! Even if it is a hotel down the street.

Have a One Night Stand with your husband. Bring something fun and new to the bedroom. Put some chocolate, or body oil in the nightstand! 98 % of men like "it" with the lights on.

Things I Lie To My Child About:

2009-05-31T21:28:00.000-07:00

1. If you don't take your nap- then we can't go to the park, it will close.
2. If you don't eat your vegetables, you wont grow up!
3. If you eat too much Ice Cream, your butt will get big. (ok- that's true!)
4. If you grab things off the shelf (at the grocery store) the man in the back will come and yell at you!
5. If you don't eat your dinner (in a restaurant) the man in the back will come and yell at you!
6. If you cross the street without holding a parents hand, a car will squish you. (mostly true)
7. Shamu has the sneezies.
8. Playwerx is closed today. They called and told me that you shouldn't have hit Mommy!!!
9. *Ring, Ring* (pretend phone rings!) "Hello Mrs. Hansen" (her teacher) "What? You want Paisley to eat all her dinner so she can watch a movie?! Okay!!! "
10. If you leave any of your toys on the floor, I will throw them away (ok- totally true.)

In Tha' Hood....... MotherHOOD That Is!

2009-05-30T22:58:00.000-07:00

One thing that I keep hearing lately is Mothers pushing themselves to the edge? Why do we not allow ourself to relax or put the house cleaning off for a day? (Well I dunno about you all- but sometimes I put my house cleaning off for 2 days! ) Why don't we spend more time with the things that matter, our kids and husbands? I have heard it in 3 different places this week. One of the places was on Oprah. Did you guys see the show on "The Secret Lives of Motherhood"? It was awesome!!! It was all about how Mothers sometimes don't like what they do- and that it is okay to feel that way. That sometimes we "hate" where our lives have gone and all the things we have given up to get here. Some Moms admitted to lying to their children to avoid conflict. We all do one or more of the things I just mentioned, we're just afraid to admit it!!! I'm breaking the ice and opening up! :)

Take last night for example; I had a spontaneous moment and thought it would be fun to go to Sea World. I had glanced at the website and saw that Summer Hours were now in effect. I told Paisley we could go to Sea World after we dropped her Daddy off at the airport and she was ecstatic!!! I figured we could get in a solid 2 hours of fun before closing. So, I got dressed and then got her dressed and ready. Just as I shut down my computer, I noticed it said "Orlando" in the top left hand corner of my screen. My computer screen went black and I thought to myself " Hmmm.... was I just on Orlandos webpage? Orlando and San Diego park hours can't be that different, can they?" Being the smart Mommy that I am, I re logged on, and checked San Diego's Sea World park hours. To my surprise, they closed at 7:30pm. It was 7:00.

I quickly panicked and imagined the meltdown that was about to happen. I walked up to Paisley and told her that Shamu was sick, and that he had the sneezies! WHAT???!!! The "Sneezies"? What kind of lie was that? Whatever it was, it worked! She said she felt bad for Shamu, and that he needed to take his medicine so he could feel better. She told me that is was okay, and that we would see him another time! *WHEW* That was easier than I though! :) Am I going to Hell? Or am I getting a Mommy Award? Mothers tell lies all the time. Sometimes it is what you gotta do to get through the day!

I love being a Mother. It is the best, but hardest job there is. I have worked as a server, as a nanny, as an activity coordinator, I worked at a yogurt shop, a paper goods store- I have yet to find a job harder or one that does not include anything in my day to day tasks of being a mother. Have I let go of some of the things that once made "Me" ? Yes. Have I lost close friends due to a difference in life paths? Yes. Have I stopped shopping at Urban Outfitters and Nordstroms ? Yes. Everything I have lost or given up is what makes me the Mom I am today, and I guess at the end of the day, all that matters is that I love my little girl, and she loves me.

Movies Make Me Cry

2009-05-30T12:32:00.000-07:00

I watched "Marley & Me" last night, it was wonderful. It was a good thing I had just dropped Tommy off at the airport because it would have been over before it started. Plus, I cried like a baby!!! Being the dog person I am, and knowing how the end was going to turn out, I should have turned it off when they couldn't find him. But being the self torturer that I am- I kept watching. Ohhh lordy...... I had a lump so big in my throat it hurt, and the tears.... ohhhhhh the tears. I guess it is the 2009 version of Ol' Yeller ( I have never seen it- and never will thanks to Marley!)

A whole lot of nothin'

2009-05-20T13:25:00.001-07:00

Thanks to my friend Sarah, I am going to a Padre Game tonight. We haven't had a girls night out in a long time.... so I am pretty excited!!! Things have been super busy on my end lately.... and I like it. :)

Hmmm... let's see.

I just shot a wedding this past weekend, booked myself another one for June. The June wedding allows me to travel to Virginia for a few days. The bride was one of my roommates in college. I am so excited to be there, and photograph it for her!!! Hopefully while I am there, I will get to see two of my other college friends. I also get to hang with Joslyn, my cousin, and maybe even possibly see my other cousin (her brother) and his wife and new baby (OMG- he's almost a year!) WOW- what a mouthful that was. :) Let's not even mention the new business venture I may be starting. Along with my Photography and being a Wife/Mommy. I am going to do more! Yes, I am crazy! :)

So anyways- please forgive me for not calling back, or writing back, or blogging for that matter. I barely have time to sit down and grab a bite to eat! Oh- that reminds me- I have gone to the gym every day (except once) the past 10 days!!! I am on this weight loss mission like a fly is on Sh@#.

Green Is The New Black... Thumb That Is.

2009-05-14T16:08:00.001-07:00

Unlike one of my closest, dearest friends black thumb, I, a once black thumb gone green, am growing some vegetables!!! I have 9 Zucchinis and about 7 Yellow (Straight & Crook Neck) Squash. I have about 4 radish plants sprouting over 15 red radishes, 3 lettuce plants, and 3 spinaches. We also have 2 soon-to-be red tomato's. THEN..... we have had 3 juicy strawberries and there are about 5 about to turn red! My carrots and cucumbers are so far the slowest. THey are the ones we grew from seeds- and so far they are still alive and growing, but no vegetable life is seen. I'm kinda excited. I just want to bite into that big tomato and eat some home grown veggies!!! Spray on some zero butter, add some spike..... there is nothing better! :)

Yesterday I planted 3 containers of Marigolds. Paisley loves them. She thinks they are happy flowers. I put some in pots for my front door and the rest went into our flower bed. I am having so much fun planting.... I need to try and hold off the urge to re do our front entry area b/c we wont be living here at Christmas time. I don't want to invest even more time and money into a home we wont be living in. Ya know what I mean?

I {heart} Tofu

2009-05-14T08:31:00.000-07:00

It is good. Like really good. I've always liked it, I just never had any recipes for it. Now I do. :) I have changed my eating habits dramatically and I love it. I now use red peppers in just about everything. The flavors, OMG! I also use these great wraps from Costco called "FlatOut" They are AWESOME!!! I have had less cravings and snacks now that I am journaling what I eat, when and how much. I pay attention to when I want to snack- and why. Is it boredom? Loneliness? Or because I am actually hungry?

I have been to the gym every day this week. RIght now I am walking over 2 miles a day. Then doing a core workout. I'm not doing weights yet.... I want to ease my body into it. :) I will let you know on Monday how much I've lost. Here's hoping!!

Fit & Fun

2009-05-11T08:57:00.001-07:00

Sitting in front of the computer, Listening to my favorite music. Excited to go to the gym in 25 min. :) Starting a new week, I have almost exactly 3 months to get to my goal weight. YAY! I love feeling the pressure, and knowing that I CAN do it. :) Eating lots of great healthy foods.... drinking tons of water.... getting my body in the best shape I can!!!

Paisley is dressing up in anything and everything she can get her hands on. She has a wardrobe change every 15 minutes. :) She makes me smile. I love her. How did I get a blue eyed, blonde haired beauty? Someone pinch me! :)

I'm excited that the summer is almost here. I can't wait to have sand filled, sunscreen days! THere is nothing better in the summer than cold watermelon, sand between your toes, and the smell of sunscreen. YUMMY

Cook Yourself Thin

2009-05-09T22:12:00.000-07:00

There is a new show on Lifetime called "Cook Yourself Thin" and one of my High School friends is one of the three hosts. Her name is Candice, and she is as sweet as can be! :) Be sure to check out the show, it's pretty neat. It's about not "dieting" but learning how to cook with less calories! Let me know what you think! :)

Cook Yourself Thin

Going Green without Going Crazy!

2009-05-03T17:43:00.000-07:00

****Hey everyone!!! Sorry I've been so M.I.A lately, I've been battling a cold the past few days, and been trying to get back on schedule from our WONDERFUL trip to see Liz and the Girls. I leave again tomorrow to go to Palm Springs for the week with my Mom and Paisley. So much for trying to get back on a regular schedule! ****

The past few weeks, I have been trying to "Go Green" more and more. I already do Green things here and there, but it wasn't until recent Oprah shows that I realized that I need/want to step it up a notch. The problem is, how do I do it all without losing my mind? I am not ready to install solar panels on my roof, or get a solar oven. I'm definitely not ready to ride a bicycle to make the toaster work (did you see that on Oprah?) I buy mostly organic foods, I buy local foods, I grow my OWN foods, I use the re-usable grocery bags, I use energy saving light bulbs, I turn off all lights when not in the room, I water less, I recycle EVERYTHING, I only run the dishwasher when it is about to over flow, I drive in a route where I can save gas, meaning save the emissions that my SUV emit, I am going to downsize my car when my lease is up..... but I want to do more!!!

Right now it is the cool thing, to "Be Green". But that is not why I am doing it. I am doing it for Paisley. I am doing it so she can have kids that will be able to grow up in a relatively "normal" world. I just get so frustrated because it feels so expensive to do the "right" thing. (am I abusing the quotation marks yet?) Today I actually drove approximately 50 miles, roundtrip, to go to our local Whole Foods Market. Thank God that a new one opens up in Encinitas by the end of the summer because driving 50 miles kinda defeats the purpose of trying to buy healthier foods! *sigh* I just don't get this world sometimes. It costs 99 cents to buy a greasy fat-filled burger at a drive though, but it cost $4.99 to buy a veggie Burger. What's a girl to do?

AHHHHH!!!!!!!

2009-04-20T09:09:00.000-07:00

OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG,OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG,OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG,OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG,

DOS DIAS!!!

2009-04-19T09:28:00.000-07:00

OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!

2009-04-18T14:32:00.000-07:00

I can't believe it has been over a year since I have seen one of my closest, best friends! I can't believe I get to hold her EIGHT month old baby girl for the first time, I can't believe I get to stay in her first bough home. I can't believe someone is going to cook for me! I can't believe how much I have missed seeing our girls do their all time famous "Tackle-Hug". I can't believe that we get to sit on her porch (who cares if she doesn't have a porch, in my mind, she does) and drink a Coke Zero together. I can't believe it....... 3 days!!!!

YAY!!!!

2009-04-17T09:09:00.000-07:00

Mama and Baby Hummingbirds

2009-04-14T12:58:00.001-07:00

* It's amazing how 3 little things have touched my life in such a huge way. I have always been a fan of Hummingbirds, but never as much as today. About 5 weeks ago I found a hummingbird nest in my backyard. I have never been so excited! I knew that this was my once in a lifetime chance to witness Mother Nature at her best! I am so happy to be able to share this with all of you... please enjoy!!!

Sitting tight in her Nest!

Here is The Mama Bird getting a quick drink!

Two lil' eggs, just a tad bigger than a tic tac.

15 DAYS LATER, WE HAVE BABIES!!! Aren't they cute? (Day one)

My "Mamas" She is so sweet and purty!!! This is where she likes to sit when not on her nest.

Lil' Snuggle Buddies (Day Five)

They wanted me to feed them (Day Nine)

Getting Feathers w/ Color ( Day Thirteen)

Getting too big for the nest :( (Day Seventeen)

Almost ready to leave the nest (Day Twenty)

We had a minor tragedy yesterday, The gardeners came and I showed them the nest, and told them to not cut the bushes. When I went to show them, I noticed one baby hummingbird half out of the nest. She had fallen out, and was like the letter "V" between a branch and her nest. The only things holding her up was the tip of her beak, and tail feathers! So I decided to push her up gently with my finger. When I got her back in the nest, it startled the other one- who then flew away. When she flew away, it startled the other one, and she flew away. SOoooo..... My Babies have left the nest! I am so happy that I got to experience this. I will never look at another hummingbird the same!!!

One Think I know for sure.....

2009-04-11T22:59:00.000-07:00

Trying to rationalize with a tired, tantrum throwing 3 1/2 year old is like trying to talk with a drunk 28 year old.

Now you go.....

Check Me Out Yo'

2009-04-06T13:14:00.000-07:00

My Apple Tree Photography

OMG!

2009-03-29T23:35:00.000-07:00

I'm going to see Liz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pretty Interesting Point of View

2009-03-11T12:03:00.001-07:00

EXCITED!!!!!!

2009-03-11T09:25:00.001-07:00

You are never going to believe what I found!!!!

A HUMMINGBIRD NEST WITH TWO EGGS!!!!!!!

IN MY BACKYARD!!!!!!!!!!

PICTURES TO COME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My lil' Dr. Doolittle.

2009-03-08T17:46:00.000-07:00

Today we got a goldfish. Her name is Crush. Like the soda, not the turtle on Finding Nemo. She is pretty darn cute, and she is about the size of a key lime.

As we drove home, Paisley was holding the fishy bag and it was so sweet hearing her talk to her. She was saying things like " It's okay Crush... we're almost home now!" and " I'll give you lots of food today. Okay?" Paisley is really sweet when it comes to things like animals. She loves all of them.

The other day we went and saw a friends new loft in downtown Oceanside, and her boyfriend has two lizards. Well, after she played with both the Mama and the baby lizard- she asked if she could play with the crickets. Their food! The Boyfriend actually let her take one home. It died 2 hours later. :) However, when it was alive, she let it crawl all over her arm and if it dropped or jumped off her she would say "Come here lil' cricket!" and pick it right back up.

Yesterday she was collecting rollie polies. At one point she had about 12. THe best part was, they'd all be rolled up and then all of a sudden two would start going one way, one would go the other way, and three would go a different way. She would scream and get frustrated.... I was laughing SO hard!!! She also thought it was necessary to put "blankets" on them. They were leaves from a tree, and each time she would cover it up, she'd squish it. :(

Paisley constantly keeps me laughing... I wonder what animal she will find next!!!

My Daily Teaching Today. (creative huh?)

2009-03-07T21:05:00.001-08:00

THis was my "Daily Teaching" today.... I really liked this one!

You are in a partnership with the law of attraction, and it is through this partnership between the two of you that you are creating your life. Each person has their own personal partnership with the law of attraction. You use the law for yourself; everyone else uses the law for themselves. You cannot use the law of attraction on someone else, against their free will. And when you think about it, thank goodness the law operates this way. If it did not, then anybody else could create something in your life that you did not want.

You create through your thoughts and feelings, and no-one but you can think your thoughts or feel your feelings.

They REALLY do say the darndest things....

2009-03-06T14:17:00.001-08:00

Today while in the car, Paisley and I had the following conversation*

P: Mom, I like to eat boogers!
Me: WHAT? Eww.. That's gross!
P: No they're not... they're good!
Me: What do they taste like?
P: long pause.
P: Umm.... they're Scrumptious!

* which is completely fabricated. She KNOWS to not eat them. I'm just sayin'.

blah, blah, blah! :)

2009-03-01T20:29:00.000-08:00

Hiddy Ho Ranger Joe! (Does anyone remember that from Full House? hahaha....)

Just stopin' by to say Hi! :)

Today was a laid back day for our little family.... we did some errands, one in which included getting my NEW CAMERA!!!! WOO HOO!!! :) I finally got the Canon G10, and I am sooooo excited. The picture quality is AMAZING!! Yes- I've already "Geeked Out" as Tommy puts it! The G10, wow... I have fallen in love all over again! :) Then we came home and watched "The Bee Movie" which is ADORABLE! I laughed my butt off ! :)

Sorry, this is TOTALLY random.

ANYWHOO- I hope everyone has a fabulous Monday and I'll be back when I have some thing interesting to say! :)

Adios Amigos!

R.I.P

2009-02-27T08:02:00.000-08:00

We have a Sand Dollar Cemetery in our backyard. We have successfully collected OVER 135 Sand Dollars. If only they were real dollars :)

Today we are off to Julian. We found a lil' place that does gold mining, and the kids get to sift through dirt to find real rocks, gems, gold, and fossils. Then we are going to hit up the Julian Pie company.... take in the scenery and have a good day! I hope everyone has a FABULOUS Friday! :)

Stand By Me

2009-02-25T11:40:00.001-08:00

I urge (all 7 of you) to watch this 5 min. video. It is truly amazing..... truly breathtaking.

OOOOH FUN!!!

2009-02-19T18:48:00.000-08:00

This is SO super dooper cool.

Sproost

Go do the quiz, then come back and tell me what styles you are. Liz- you are gunna LOVE this :)

FYI: I am 50% French Eclectic, 40% Wine Country, and 10% Nantucket

Daily Teachings

2009-02-15T14:53:00.000-08:00

I thought I would share with you some of the things on my mind lately. I have been going through a bit of a rough patch, and with the help of the book, The Secret its getting easier!! :)

" Love is the highest power we possess to be in complete harmony with the law of attraction. THe more love we feel, the greater our power. THe more selfless love we feel, the more unfathomable our power. The law of attraction has been called the law of love, because the law itself is a gift of love to our humanity. It is the law by which we can create incredible lives for ourselves. The more love we feel, the greater our power to create magnificent life of love, joy, and harmony"

'We attract to ourselves what we hold inside. Every circumstance, every person, and every situation that we attract and experience is based on what is inside of us. Could you ask for a more magnificent system than this? Your life is a reflection of what you hold inside you, and what you hold inside you is always under your control."

"You are a unique an magnificent human being. Of all the billions of people on the planet, there is not another YOU, and your very existence is vital to the functioning of our Universe, because you are one part of the whole universe. All that you see, and all that there is, could not exist without you! "

"No Matter where you are, no matter how difficult things might appear to be, you are always being moved towards magnificence.
Always."

I hope these reach you all when it is best for you.

Love

2009-02-14T10:09:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day!!!!!

Six Reasons My Toddler is Kind of an A**hole

2009-02-10T09:34:00.000-08:00

I found this on the internet (go figure) and it has not only made my day..... but I HAD to share it with all of you!!!!
XOXOX

If my toddler was one of my girlfriends, I'd kick her to the curb.

Momlogic's Andrea: Since becoming a parent, I spend a great deal of time with my three-year-old. We're inseparable. But to be honest, even though she's my BFF, she's not the greatest friend. At one time or another all toddlers can be jerks -- adorable, cuddly, hilarious, jerks. Put simply, if I had to scale down my friend inventory she'd be the first to go, here's why:

She's extremely self-absorbed
You know the type, they never ask questions in conversation. Instead it's all about them. All day long it's: "I like pink!," "Watch me bounce on the bed", "I went poo in my pants!" Just once I'd like to hear her ask me what's MY favorite color or inquire if, perhaps, I went poo in MY pants.

She calls me in the middle of the night
Can you say needy? I mean I have to work WAY earlier than she does ... actually she doesn't even have a job. So I find it really irritating that anytime she needs a shoulder to cry on -- or more milk -- she has no compunction about waking me up, sometimes more than once a night. It's been going on for years. I like to be there for my friends, but this is ridiculous.

She's manic AND a control freak
Not a great combination. Her personality can change on a dime. One minute she's standing on a chair in full princess regalia happily singing "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star," the next she's uncontrollably crying and hurling her tiara across the room because I brought her juice in the wrong sippy cup. I'm constantly walking on eggshells. It's like hanging out with a tiny alcoholic who swigs massive amounts of milk.

She's a slob
Ever have a friend who was a little lax in the hygiene department? Multiply that by a hundred. There are times when the kid reeks. But does she care? No way. I'm always the one who has to broach the bath subject. What's worse is she doesn't care if her hair is combed, her teeth brushed or her clothes are crusty with dried yogurt. Giving her friendly advice, like, "You only get one chance to make a first impression" falls on deaf ears.

She's a fair weather friend
She's the kind of friend that it's great when you're at the top of her list -- especially if you have candy -- but then she'll drop you like a hot Mr. Potato Head.

She's a mooch
It's galling. She's NEVER offered to pay or at least split the check when we go out to lunch. Even worse, we've been roommates ever since she was born and she's never once remembered to help with the rent.

Seriously, would you stay friends with someone like this?

This is TRULY amazing!!!

2009-02-10T09:30:00.001-08:00

I love finding kind people though the internet!!!

2009-02-08T23:14:00.000-08:00

I just wanted to thank Emily for my new and improved bloggy design. You can find her HERE

Also.... please check out Emily's website that I am in LOVE with... Little Window Shop

THis is one of the things featured on her site that make me smile
Free 2009 Printable Calendar

...and this too:
Eco Friendly Art Supplies

Ya'll can thank me later!
Thanks again Emily!!!

Challenge: To Have Fun

2009-02-04T09:51:00.000-08:00

I've decided to start challenging myself again with how I can be a better Mommy. It never hurts right? This is going to be kinda like the 30 days of fun- but with a different twist on it. I'm going to turn the TV off- and play.

Over at My Charming Kids they have snow. LOTS of snow. She is having her readers write in what indoor activities they participate in, and it got me thinking.... just because there is no snow here, it doesn't mean I can't come up with new and creative indoor play- or better yet, taking it outdoors! I am a firm believer that Paisley can learn more from what she experiences that what a book can teach her. I have a mental list of the fun things we will be doing, but I'd love to hear what ideas you all come up with. Please post in the comments anything fun that Paisley and I can do together! YOu get bonus points if you can include Tommy in it! :)

I {heart} My Husband

2009-02-01T12:22:00.000-08:00

School comes easy to some people. Not me. Not Tommy. However- I have to give a shout out to my husband. He is doing SO well in Paramedic school. He has a test every day in the class, and he must always get better than an 80%. When I first heard this, I freaked out a little. I know he can do anything when he puts his mind to it- and well. He's doing it! He has gotten above a 92% on every single test! I am so proud of him, and all that he is doing so WE can accomplish OUR dreams.

Wholy Moly

2009-01-29T20:51:00.000-08:00

...... Have you seen how many sites there are for reusable bags???? I am ALL about it, saving the planet- all that jazz. But spending $29.99 on one re usable grocery bag is CRAZY!!! I would need AT LEAST 10 bags.

Here are a few sites that give examples of Design Forward Bags:

B Happy Bags
Reusable Bags
Ru Me
Flip and Tumble
Shop Wise Bags

Cool Blog

2009-01-29T20:40:00.000-08:00

I found this blog through Liz... and I just love her! Go here to see the giveaways!!!

Simple Mom

No Knock-Knock's Here.

2009-01-25T17:41:00.000-08:00

Tonight as Paisley and I were pulling in the garage, I saw a van U-turn in our cul-de-sac thingy- and drop about 4 kids off. I'm assuming, selling magazines. I was just opening the door so P could get out of the car when I saw one young man walk towards my then, open garage. I told Paisley to hurry up, and get out- I grabbed her by the arm, helped her out of the car and darted towards the garage door opener, in this case, garage door closer. I think I closed the garage just as he was walking up my driveway. I'm sure he went to the front door where he was greeted with my newly made "ABSOLUTELY NO SOLICITING" sign. :)

Why so rude you ask? Well, living in a track home development such as Rancho Del Oro, I get BOAT LOADS of people selling stuff. Vans come literally 3 times a week, dropping off kids from all over this country. Mostly I get Church Goer's, Magazine sellers, and Vacuum sellers wanting to clean a 2 foot by 2 foot square on my carpet. The main issue here is me. I just can't say no. I can't tell you how many newspaper subscriptions I've signed up for just so that sweet kid can earn a trip to Hawaii. Or how many people have asked me to clean my carpet- and I've obliged. I have also stood in my doorway for almost 20 minutes listening to some sweet old lad tell me about God. I can't say no. Hence the new sign.

30 minutes later, and no knock at my door- it must be the sign. :)

Guess What?

2009-01-22T12:07:00.001-08:00

Today, at the gym.... I ran. And no one was chasing me!!!

Stephanie- can you email me and give me some pointers on training for a 5K. I've heard the whole run for 3 walk for 2, run for 3 walk for 2 is good.... But I'd love to hear what you, or anyone else has to say!!!

No Sticky Traps Needed Here! *PHEW

2009-01-21T12:00:00.000-08:00

Paisley has a pet mouse. It's not real, she stole it from the Halloween store back in Oct. I did not know it was "stolen" until we got home and I saw it clutched in her hand. (that's a whole 'nother story) The next day or so, she was swinging it around by it's tail in the car, it went airborne, and that was the last we saw of that little squishy mouse.

We found the mouse yesterday while we were waiting for school to start (I like to be early) Paisley has not let this little thing out of her sight. RIght now, she is tucking him in on the couch. He is all wrapper up in her blankie. She asked me if he can go take a nap with her and I explained the no toys in bed rule. (of course that excludes the 12 or so stuffed animals and the 3 baby dolls.) I'll take a photo of Paisley with her mouse in a bit. Liz- now THIS is the kind of mouse that is okay to have!!!

I {heart} The Internet

2009-01-20T12:35:00.002-08:00

You'd never see these things in real, everyday, life.

URGENT

2009-01-19T08:02:00.000-08:00

No. I am not pregnant, and definitely not trying.

And the Banana French Toast from Deceptively Delicious is TO DIE FOR.

Deceptive yet TOTALLY Delicious

2009-01-18T18:52:00.001-08:00

It works.... and it's amazing. I've never seen my child take such big bites, or ask for more. Honestly.

Today I decided to (finally) puree a bunch of fruits and veggies. I put Paisley down for her nap at 1 and went into the kitchen and started steaming Butternut Squash, Carrots, and Spaghetti Squash. For the second round, I steamed Broccoli, Cauliflower and pureed a banana. When I sat down, it was just a little after 2. I couldn't believe how fast it actually was. It didn't take nearly as long as I had expected. I put all my puree in the soft muffin tins. Except they aren't tins. They're rubber. It made for easy popping out. once they froze, I put them all in freezer bags for recipes I'll make this week.

Tonight, for dinner, I made Grilled Chicken, Mozz. Sticks w/ hidden Cauliflower and Buttered Noodles with hidden Cauliflower. Paisley ate it all. Like All. Tomorrow, for breakfast, I am making Banana French Toast. You take some purred bananas and add it to the egg mixture that you dip your bread in. YUM! I'm really excited to try that one. :) Tonight, I got so excited, I ran (back) to the grocery store and bought 6 apples. When I got home I peeled them, cored them (I'm lying. I made my mom do all that) then cut them up into slices. Added some cinnamon and put them in an empty pot. They got soft and I pureed them. OMG...... warm, home made applesauce is right up there with the big "O". Sorry. TMI? But really.... you should try it. It's DE-licious!

I am so excited for this new chapter of healthier eating in our family... It kinda makes me want to have another baby so I can make all the baby food from home. Kinda.

Gone- but not forgotten.

2009-01-18T09:49:00.003-08:00

Hey peeps.... I haven't forgotten about you.... my Mom is in town visiting.... I'll be back to writing in a day or two! :)

Happy Sunday!

CROCK POTS ROCK!!!

2009-01-14T11:55:00.001-08:00

BROOKE- this is mainly for you! :) Go here.... it's a must!!!

CROCK POT RECIPES

EDITED TO ADD: I went through and looked at every (picture) Recipe. I saved about 20 of her 365 recipes. All of her food is Gluten Free, and mostly Organic. It's pretty darn exciting if I do say so myself.

:)

WATCH THIS!!!

2009-01-11T21:01:00.001-08:00

If you've seen it... tell me ALL about it. I can't wait to see it...

..... and the song- check out "Merry Happy" by Kate Nash.... LOVE it. :)

Read below too- other posts posted! :)

Flickr Fun!!!

2009-01-11T18:09:00.001-08:00

This was SUPER* fun. Answer the following questions, by typing in your answer on Flickr (in the search bar) with one word. Choose the first photo that comes up! I only cheated like 2 times, and found a better photo! :)

* other than the tedious process of saving each photo, then finding it's place b/c blogger sucks!

1. Name?

2. Age?

3.Where did you go to school?

4.Then what did you do?

5. ...and then what?

6. What do you want to be when you grow up?

7. Favorite Beverage

8. Favorite Food

9. Favorite Dessert

10. Celebrity Crush

11. Dream Vacation?

12. Recent Dreams

13. What is your favorite Disney Princess?

14. Favorite Moments?

15. One word that describes you

* Don't get excited..... I meant "Positive" not PREGNANT!!!

Because Liz Said So (creative huh?)

2009-01-11T09:49:00.001-08:00

Liz told me to go to my 4th folder. I have two 4th folders, so I went to the one on this hard drive.

**This is Paisley trying on her Flower Girl Dress that she would have worn should she have been in the wedding she was going to be in. :) Now, I am supposed to pick 4 people, but since I really only have one IRL friend that blogs, I pick Brooke. :)

They Talk The Talk

2009-01-09T18:21:00.000-08:00

While I was at the gym today, I picked up a Prevention Magazine while on the Precor Trainer. (Like an Elliptical) I started reading- and the more I read, the more confused I got. Why is it that so many people say so many things? For example: Joe Schmo A says walking briskly for 15 min. every morning will help you lose weight 5% faster than not walking in the morning. But the Joe Schmo B says to not walk in the morning- to only do weights. Another example: Eating one cup of blueberries every day will help your skin look and feel smoother. Almonds will help the shininess in your hair and 3 oz of Pomegranate seeds will help you prevent heart disease.

BLAH, BLAH, BLAH.

It's the same with Parenting too. There are so many people telling you what to do all I am left with is confusion, not a clean colon. Seriously, if I ate (or drank) all the things that each and every health professional told me to, all I'd do is gain weight, not lose it.

Am I the only one who gets confused with all this talk?

Sicles'

2009-01-07T18:06:00.000-08:00

So, I'm not normally such a SuperMom. Wait- that's not true ;) But this afternoon Paisley and I made popsicles. After seeing Liz's blog (a while back) about making popsicles with Carly, it made me flash back to my childhood making popsicles with my Mom. Back then we used using Kerns Nectar Juice. I LOVED them.

Today, we made two diff. kinds. Here are the recipes if you want to make some!!!

Blueberry Sicles
Plain Organic Yogurt
White Grape Juice
Frozen Blueberries
1/4 scoop of protein powder

**no real measurements, it's all about personal preference.

Strawberry Banana Sicles

Plain Organic Yogurt

Strawberry Banana Juicy Juice

Frozen Strawberries

Mushy Banana

1/4 scoop of protein powder

Yay For Favorites

2009-01-07T11:19:00.001-08:00

Two of my favorite things:

1. Handmade slippers, sold at a church craft fair.

2. Coke Zero Minis. 8 oz.

Sitting is Expensive!

2009-01-06T18:57:00.000-08:00

Today we went chair shopping. CHAIR. SHOPPING. Not my favorite kind of shopping- but it still has the good word in it. SHOPPING.

Can you believe chairs can cost like 399$. I know there are more expensive chairs, but at Staples? You see, Tommy starts Paramedic school in 2 weeks, and he needs a good chair to sit in. Compared to the good chairs we have at our kitchen table, or the fold out ones in the garage, or the one at my computer desk. When we were at Staples, the cheapest one we saw was 39.99$. That is just insane to me. The next price up was 79.99$ I even asked the sales clerk where all the 49.99$ 59.99$ and 69.99$ chairs went. That is just a huge price gap to me.

We didn't end up getting a chair. I need him to understand that the FREE chairs in our garage work just fine. After all, all you do is sit in it.

I'm not fishing... I swear!!!

2009-01-05T11:10:00.000-08:00

DId I tell you what I did the other day while on my much needed alone time? I donated blood!!!!! I have never done it before, but grew up watching (literally) my Dad do it every 8 weeks. Religiously. I always have wanted to, but there are some requirements, like no tattoos within 12 months, not having a baby, stuff like that. So I went through my mental checklist, and I qualified!!! I walked in and got all nervous... but after 5 minutes of donating (they said I was Super fast at it- normal people take approx. 10-15 min.) (Maybe it was b/c I kept squeezing the ball to make it go faster!!! :) 2 cookies later, and a cranberry juice- I felt great, and VERY proud of myself for being so selfless on my Me Day! :) To top it all off, there was a massage therapist there offering free 15 min. massages!!!

To TOTALLY copy Liz and Stephanie, here is a version of my List:

1. To go to the gym 5 days a week.
2. Make Paisley smile EVERY day. (Not a hard task!)
3. Do something kind for a random stranger EVERY DAY!!!
4. To scrapbook more- believe it or not, I never do anymore!!
5. Allow myself to get a pedicure once a month :)
6. Go on date night twice a month. (I'd like more, but I'm being real here people!)
7. To clean my home more often :)
8. Teach Paisley about donating and the act of giving.
9. Educate myself more on a particular subject.( nothing in particular, I just want to stimulate my brain!!!)
10. Be a better Friend.

....and that's all folks! :)

2009-01-03T12:29:00.001-08:00

I haven't wanted to blog- so my sweet Brody could say hello to me every time I view my blog. :)

I guess i'll get my boo-tay back into the swing of things.....

Bromance

2008-12-29T22:29:00.000-08:00

Two reasons why I am going to watch the new show on MTV:

1.

2.

Do I need anymore reasons???

Welcome Home

2008-12-26T11:34:00.000-08:00

I did it. I braved the masses, and went to Target.

I have been waiting since Thanksgiving for this little jewel. Yes, I could have paid the very cheap, full price of 29.99 for this little item, but I decided to give myself a little lesson in patience.

THis morning I decided to brave the masses and go to the 50% off Christmas Sale at Target. I walked up to the Isle where the Advent Calendar (House's) last were, and as I approached them, I didn't see mine. I got SO sad so fast!!! Then, through the thick of eggnog filled people, and broken bulbs, and unwound garland- I saw it, on it's back. My JEWEL!!!

Welcome Home little guy.... I have been waiting for you!!!!

P.S Tree Sold Separately.
P.P.S Did I mention I got another 10% off for some chipped paint? NICE!!

To: Miss Carly Fisch

2008-12-24T14:59:00.001-08:00

Love: Peace-Peace Reese

2008-12-22T12:40:00.000-08:00

Houston: We have discovered the "Wizard of Oz"

Over
and
Over
and
Over
and
Over.

Last Nights Recap

2008-12-21T12:12:00.000-08:00

Last night I went to Brooke's Mom's Christmas party. It was SOOO fun! We had a gift exchange and I got to pick 2 numbers out of the hat because Paisley and I both brought a gift. I got number 14, and Paisley got number 2. She picked a Fire Truck that dispenses M&M's How appropriate huh? :) When It was my turn, I chose a gift card to the Movie Theater. It was great!!! Paisley and I both left with GREAT Gifts. :) Paisley also left with a new LPS Giraffe, and Mouse that Santa gave her! When Santa came and she was done telling him what she wanted, she jumped off his lap, ran over to me hugged me (very tightly) and said "Happy Birthday Mommy!!!!" She was so caught up in the moment, even though she had the wrong expression- I loved it!

A quick recap of last nights funnies:

Paisley losing her panties
Secret Crush's
Doing shots w/ Brooke's Brother
Brooke and I being Secret Stealth Agents
Karah hiding in the Playroom
Paisley trying to break out the front door to find the Reindeer
Santa's Mole
Logan & Paisley making out

Today we are staying home, taking it easy watching Classic Christmas movies. The heater is running, we are both still in our PJ's and I am just enjoying the season. I can't believe it is almost over. It has gone so fast this year!!! Have a wonderful Sunday!

Poor Baby!

2008-12-19T13:45:00.000-08:00

Caylee Anthony's remains were identified today. I have been following this case closely, and am utterly disgusted by it. Poor, poor, sweet baby girl. She did not deserve it- and I hope whoever did this pays. I have nothing nice to say about people who do these kinds of acts. If it was in fact the mother (which it appears to be!) she should have just given her up to her parents, or someone else.... there is NO NEED to do this!!!!!!

My heart aches for the family of Caylee Anthony.

:(
Caylee's Website

No Negative Nellys Allowed!

2008-12-19T08:00:00.001-08:00

Hi!!! How are you???

I didn't like that last post to be on top. Too negative for me. SO- I just wanted to say hello, and I hope everyone has finished their shopping to they don't have to go to the mall or other stores !!! I went to the mall yesterday, just for makeup, and it was C-RAZY!!! I was in and out....

Have a WONDERFUL Friday!!!

Vent Session

2008-12-17T13:18:00.001-08:00

HI. I am going to vent for a few seconds.

I am SOOOO sick of wondering if there are BAD people out there. I am a very open, and trusting person. Some people may think too trusting, but whatev. I am a positive person by nature, so it goes with the program. Today, I was looking on my you tube account- making sure there weren't people that I don't know subscribed to me- and there was. I don't know if it was a man or a woman or if it could be a possible pedophile. I looked at what some of there favorites were, and they were all videos of kids. Some from Mexico, others from the US. There were even a few on medical examinations of kids. I of course then, blocked them a a user/viewer to my videos. Who knows- they could be a med student- or something along those lines. But either way, it makes me nervous. I try not to live my life always wondering if there is a "Bad Guy" that is going to hurt me or Paisley, but sometimes it makes me nervous. I get a lot of older men (usually at the grocery store) coming up to Paisley and talking with her, and saying how beautiful she is and that she looks so much older than 3. Which she does in my opinion..... but still. I have even had numerous people come up to me and tell me she looks like Jon Benet Ramsey (which is a compliment AND an insult) *sigh* I like to think that these are nice people who just miss their Grandbabies or are just being kind. But at times, it is a bit overwhelming. I just wish this place wasn't so hard sometimes, and that everyone could trust everyone.

There. I'm done now.

Boo Mama's Home Tour 2008

2008-12-15T08:11:00.000-08:00

Hey everyone, come on in....
Here are a few of my favorite things around the house.... would you like some Tea?

Enjoy the tour!!

This is our Daughter Paisley's Stocking. I think it is adorable!!

This is our annual tradition. We write down on a piece of paper our accomplishments. Decorate a clear glass ornament, and seal it up. When Paisley goes off to college, she will have all the previous years ornaments to cherish, or open and learn about her past!

This is our newest Tradition in our household... this is Jingles. The "Elf on a Shelf"

One of my favorite frames, and favorite photos from a few years back!

This is our newly remodled Ginger Bread House. Quite nice I think!

Don't mind the cuteness in the photo- that's just my Paisley!

And last but not least....

Merry Christmas from our home to yours!

Giving Back

2008-12-14T13:35:00.001-08:00

I chopped my hair. I have approx. 8 inches to donate to Locks of Love. I am so happy. It is so freeing to know that I get to help children in the US by donating my hair! I love it.

Pictures to come! :)

Update

2008-12-12T18:52:00.000-08:00

Hey all... just a few things:

Paisley is feeling MUCH better.... thanks! :) As soon as her cheeks got pink again, and she started singing yesterday afternoon- I knew she was pulling through. :) The temper tantrum this morning made it even more clear that she is back to normal ;)

We got our "Elf on a Shelf" on Wednesday. Paisley named him "Jingles" she is enamored with him. Every morning when she wakes up she runs out to find him!! If you haven't heard of him google "Elf on a Shelf". He is FABULOUS!!! The gist of the idea is that he is Santa's helper- and he watches to make sure that she is a good girl EVERY day. I am currently in the process of making a New Years Elf, Valentines, St. Patricks, and an Easter Elf. Really! :) The way this child behaves when "Jingles" is around is astonishing!!!

Here is a photo of Jingles hanging out in our tree:

Tomorrow Tommy and I have his Fire Department Christmas Party at Pala Casino. I am sooooo excited to get all dolled up, get my hair did- and have fun! I'll post pictures lata' :)

Have a Great weekend filled with Holiday fun! :)

The Flu Bug BUGS!!!!

2008-12-11T11:14:00.000-08:00

Paisley has the flu. She keeps throwing up. I have nothing interesting to report. Paisley had to miss school today, which was very sad for her... they were finishing their Christmas presents for the parents, and finishing their preparations for the Christmas Show. Please keep us in your thoughts that this all passes soon, and that Tommy and I don't catch it. We have all 5 of our Christmas parties these next 3 weeks!

Christmas Fun!

2008-12-09T14:11:00.000-08:00

Christmas is in full effect around here, and I wanted to show you a few of the fun Christmas-ie things we have been doing!!! Enjoy!

Getting a gift from Santa at the San Marcos Fire Station

Shhhhh!!!!

Making a cookie w/ Daddy!

Telling Santa what I want for Christmas

Finding the "PERFECT" tree!

Decorating the Tree with Mommy!

Paisley the Gift Giver! :)

2008-12-07T08:57:00.001-08:00

This morning while Paisley and I were snuggling in bed, I asked her what Tommy and I were getting for Christmas, she told me Daddy was getting a new watch, pillow, and bed. :) Then she told me I could get whatever I wanted. She pointed to various things in my room... it was cute! She even told me I could get new "Scapbookies" if I wanted to! :) When I asked her about everyone else she knew, this is what she said:

Mimi: New Dishes and a new "wee" (Hammock)
Papa: New Golfs
Merlot-sie: New Doggy Toys
Oma: A new Table, and "Brekist".
Grandpa Tom: New hat
Aunt Mary: A new finger (she lost half of her finger in an accident!) ;)
Sarah: New TuTu's and new boobies ;)
Shayne: New Caterpillar Jumpy (like in the garage)
Boop- A new Car and small boobies like these... (she pointed to hers!)
Logan: New shoes and a new Fire truck
Mason: New tattoos
Liz: A new phone
Carly: New Toys and a new movie
Bree: New Tattoos

My Crazy for the Day

2008-12-06T12:40:00.001-08:00

One of you may have already heard this, but I HAVE to tell you all about it. :)

Today while shopping at Toys R' Us we had to make a quick run to the bathroom. We had just finished our shopping so I figured we should go before we get in the checkout line(s). We went in- and came out relatively fast. When Paisley and I came out- our cart was gone. I had two things in it for a Birthday party that we were going to later today, a secret present for Paisley and a few random odds and ends. When I realized it was all gone- I got pissed. It took me 30 minutes to navigate through that store (it was PACKED) I walked up to two employees, and said "Hey- did you take my cart? I parked it outside the bathroom, and now it's gone!!!" They looked at me and said "Nope." OOOH- was I steaming now!!! I went and got a new (empty) cart, and proceeded to go and get the same things over. WHen I went to grab the secret present for Paisley- they were all gone. ARRRGGG. NOW I WAS PISSED. I walked over to where a manager was standing, and said "Excuse me. I parked my cart outside the bathroom, and now its gone. And the one thing I need in there, you don't have on the self anymore!!!" Just then a few employees walked up with some carts, and stuff in it. The manager asked them if they took it- and while he was mid sentence, I saw my stuff in one of the carts. I interrupted the manager and said "YOU!!!!!! Why would you take someones cart full of stuff, when it is parked outside the bathroom. OBVIOUSLY I was in the bathroom, not abandoning my cart!" I walked over, grabbed my stuff, and said "SERIOUSLY!!!!" The manager said "Calvin, please apologize to the lady!" When Calvin tried to apologize I realized I was acting like a crazy lady, and well... proceeded acting like a crazy lady by saying " Why would you take my cart? There wasn't any of the ***** left on the shelf- and I was gonna be pissed!" I stormed off. I called Tommy (and Brooke) to vent, and Tommy told me I was that shopper today! I don't care how crazy I looked, or acted. I was pissed. :)

The best part is Paisley has told my Mom, Tommy (again) and Karah all about it. She keeps saying- "he took my cart, and my book was in it!!" hahahaha....

I can go on and on..

2008-12-02T14:56:00.000-08:00

Is it just me or are couples on TV shows just over the top? I was watching one of my favorite shows "Privileged" and Megan and Will, the two I'm referring to, were so much and perfect, it made me sick! Please don't mistake this for a pessimistic post, I am a positive person. A positive person driven by Love. However, I couldn't help buy laugh at some of the lovey dovey conversations between the two of them. Like C'mon..... what man comes back to you after you walk away after just saying it's over, and says "I'm sorry I've been so grouchy, you were right to feel the way you did...... come with me, I have a surprise for you......" As she opens her eyes to Pastrami sandwiches flown in from Carnegie Deli, A man Roasting Chestnuts (flown in from Paris) and a 30 foot Christmas tree. Because he was "Sorry" that he was "Grouchy"
Gotta love TV!

Have I told you about my Lil' Saint? Have I told you that she is 3 years old, says Grace at the table, says her prayers every night before bed, ASKS me to read her the Bible instead of funny Duckie books, and sings Baby Jesus songs to me all day long? Have I told you that she says "Baby Jesus makes my heart happy" ?! Yeah- that's my little Paisley, and somewhere down the road- she has become a Saint. God knows it wasn't from Tommy or I. Maybe this is God's way of showing me what it was like to be a good girl, knowing perfectly well that I would have no idea what that looks like :)

Also, yesterday Paisley told me that she does not want a pet. She says she only wants a kitty (that Tommy and I are DEATHLY allergic to) and that she never ever wants a dog. Hmm.... I guess there goes next years Christmas present!

Oh, one more thing: Today- I have officially lost just over 13 lbs. :) YAY me! :)

Not Me Monday

2008-12-01T17:20:00.001-08:00

SO... I am giving it a try.

Today when we went to see Santa, and Paisley did not want to go in, I did not tell her she wont get any gifts from him just so I could get a photo of her with him. Because that would be untrue, un-holiday like, and down right mean to say to your 3 year old. Nope. Not me.

When I read Liz's blog today on cleaning your grout- I did not ask myself how long it has been since I cleaned the grout with a toothbrush in my house. No I didn't. I should know that it (wasn't) was just last weekend. (Wasn't)

Today I did not tell Paisley Mommy was sick, so I could have 10, I mean, 20, I mean 30 minutes more of my warm snuggly bed before I had to get up, drink some coffee to wake up, then get ready for our day. *Which turned out to be VERY unproductive. Nope- Not me. *See above*

When Paisley scrapped her leg on the curb, I did not tell her we could go get ice cream to make it better just so I could get myself some "Golden Foon" That would be bad to teach my child that Ice Cream makes it better, and that would be selfish of me to think about me getting some yummy, delicious, soft serve ice cream rather than kissing her scraped leg and making it better.

Oh Christmas Tree....

2008-11-30T19:18:00.000-08:00

I don't know why, but every year it's getting harder and harder for me to decide what to do with my Tree. Yes, "my" tree. :) This year I was planning to buy all new Cherry Red ornament balls with the new Black ones at Walmart (ICK- I know!) Then they had some really neat Black and Red Damask print decoration boxes that I was going to throw under the tree. But let's face it... I am not 21 anymore- and I am not a single, cosmopolitan drinking girl who sits on roof top bars wearing Jimmy Choo's. **SIGH** I am a Mama, with hand made ornaments from the past 3 Christmas's. I have some of my FAVORITE childhood ornaments, Tommy's childhood ornaments and ones that we have gotten each year we have been together. I don't know what to do.... this stuff drives me up the walls!!! HECK- it's not even December yet, and I am THIS stressed out about it! GEESH.

Like Usual- I'm all over the place.

2008-11-29T08:30:00.000-08:00

So... how'd YOUR Thanksgiving go? Mine was excellent thanks for asking ;) I was kinda nervous about my oversized bird this year- but all went well. I cooked it in an oven bag, added some sweet onions, granny smith apples, and voila 3 hours later- my bird was 195 degrees, brown on the outside, white and juicy on the inside! I am so proud.

Paisley was, well, not so perfect. She was great all day and evening, but when it came to actually sitting down and eating the meal that I had made.... notsomuch. She did this at my parents too. She wouldn't eat anything but the green beans and bread rolls. I had to sit there and bribe her to take a bite of something. I finally gave up (both times) and just told her no pumpkin pie. She didn't budge. Oh well..... what cha gonna do?!

On Wednesday, thats right, the day BEFORE Thanksgiving, Tommy got on the roof, and hung the lights. I was so excited that we were the first ones on the street to have them up. I wonder how many houses will have them up after this weekend. Tommy got really into it this year, I don't know if it is because of how excited Paisley is about it all, or if he has the Holiday Cheer in his heart already like I do. Speaking of.... have you heard of The Elf on the Shelf? OMG. I first read about her on Bring The Rain, it is too cute. I have never heard of it before, and I am totally buying one this week. I have been talking to Paisley about our Elf that will be showing up any day, and she is getting sooooo excited. She keeps telling me that she will be a good girl, so Santa will bring her toys. I just love this idea.if I could keep this up for every month of the year, I would. Hmmm.... I wonder if they have a New Year, Valentine, St. patrick Day etc. elf?????

Blog Hopping Helps

2008-11-25T20:13:00.001-08:00

If you haven't visited MCK yet, you really should. Be sure to check out the link on the left... better yet, just go here:
Stellans Name Gallery
Pretty amazing!!

Silence

2008-11-25T12:48:00.000-08:00

It's quiet. It's a rare thing in this house. Despite the fact that I am home without Tommy 75% of the time, I rarely hear nothing. Paisley is down for her nap, Tommy is on the couch studying for paramedic school and I am on the computer. Usually the TV is left on, the phone is ringing, or I have my music on in the background..... there is always something. However, right now, all I hear are the keys on the keyboard. It's calming.

Today and tomorrow is the calm before the storm. We don't have many people coming over for Thanksgiving, but it is always such a fiasco. No matter how many people come over. Don't get me wrong. I love the happy fiasco of it all. Today I set up my table, put the leaf in, put out my ADORABLE tablecloth and created my centerpiece. I love centerpieces. Tomorrow I will do some detail cleaning in and around the house, then Thursday morning I begin cooking. We will be eating at 3 so it allows me time for preparation. Tommy and I are going to go and buy new lights for the outside of the house today. We bought new ones last year, but they aren't very bright. And I mean it when I say that. They are soooo dim, you can only see them if you are right in front of the house- so this year.... we're going BRIGHT! :) We have a new lit deer for our front yard- Paisley is SO excited about that. Then we have candy canes to line our walkway. I am getting so exited that the Holidays are finally here... I just love them!

QUICK

2008-11-23T14:21:00.001-08:00

go look at my other blog!

10 lbs Gone! & Turkey Talk

2008-11-18T14:31:00.001-08:00

Thanks fir the luv ya'll. I know there are more of you out there.... you're just "scared" :)

Also- I just want to tell everyone that I am officially UNDER my "Big Mark" in weight loss. I lost 12 lbs this past month or so- and I am sooo happy. 2 of those pounds have "magically" transformed into muscle! YAY ME!!!

So, as the Holidays fast approach, I want to know what you all are doing. Do you have any traditions that you do for Thanksgiving? Is there a "Special" dish that someone brings... or better yet, a "Dreaded" dish??? I'm curious. This is the first year that this many of my friends aren't here- localy. So I'm itchin' to know!!

For me- well, I spend Thanksgiving with my parents every year. The past 3 years they have been up in Solvang, and it is a capitol "P" Pleasure to go up and spend time with them. This year, we will be celebrating it one week early, we leave on the 20th. As far as food goes, my Mom always makes these fancy turkeys with sage and infused with red wine (natch). I love seeing what she comes up each year! Also- we aren't traditional Pumpkin Pie people.... we eat "Cheese Pie" which is TO.DIE.FOR. YUM. Picture a Cheesecake but this is made with lemon juice and it has a tart sour cream topping. DOUBLE YUM! I can't wait. It is going to be one hell-of a cheat night! :)

As for the official Thanksgiving, we will be celebrating it here with my MIL and my little family. I am so excited to be preparing Thanksgiving this year. I haven't done it myself in a few years! I've escaped the stress! :) I'm going to try to Brine my Turkey this year (wish me luck) and make "Creamy Mashed Potatoes (they have a BLOCK of Cream cheese in them!! What? I wont be eating it! :) I am also making a new stuffing. I love making stuffing. My favorite kind is ones that have cranberries in it. YIPPEE!!! This all makes me soooo happy!!! :)

Okay, now go... comment away... tell me your stuff!

I like Spontaneity. I don't like Strikes.

2008-11-17T16:21:00.001-08:00

I'm starting to get sad. :( None of you bloggy friends, or family are leaving me comments anymore :( I know you read me- we talk about it on the phone or in emails.... maybe that's the problem. Alrighty.... I'm on strike- no more emails or phone calls to you people until you comment :) Ha- ya right. Like that will happen.

Today we, as in the whole family, stayed home in our PJ'S. It was soooooo nice. Tommy hung out with us and we just played. We played dress up, My Little Ponies, watched Movies. We haven't had a "Personal Day" in forever! I liked having the feeling of not having to get up and go anywhere. I took a shower just 30 minutes ago, and it was kinda neat hearing T & P play T-Ball in the backyard.Today was definitely not my normal kind of spontaneity, but it sure was for this lil' Family!

A Big Jolt

2008-11-17T07:17:00.000-08:00

Californians: Did you feel that earthquake at 4:35 a.m. this morning? Well, I kinda did. I was fast asleep and I had a night mare that a man, dressed all in black, jumped out at me, and held me at gunpoint- he slammed me against the wall. That was it. I'm convinced that it was the earthquake that startled me. It was pretty close to us- and for someone who is TOTALLY afraid of Earthquakes- being in the same country as me, is close enough. a 4.1 is enough to make me watch the news all day, just in case another one happens.

I'll keep you posted.

Check THIS out!

2008-11-13T22:39:00.000-08:00

This place is pretty cool. I actually have a better system available to me offered through my personal trainer.... but because I have a MAC, it's not compatable. SOOOOoooooo... today, I found this:

Calorie Count

FREE PHOTOBOOKS * pass it on*

2008-11-12T20:13:00.000-08:00

Hey everyone..... I heard on Oprah today that if you go to her website, then click on todays show there is a link for a FREE bound, photobook (retail value $29.99) This is only valid for 48 hours!!! SO hurry up and make one!!! I am in the process of making mine now! What a great and FREE Christmas Gift for someone. You get one FREE photobook per household!!! Enjoy!

The Hen Party

2008-11-10T18:54:00.000-08:00

Seriously, watch this!!! Liz... and anybody else who leaves their volume all the way down, TURN IT ON/UP!!!! :)

Go now!

2008-11-10T08:45:00.000-08:00

Please go visit my new Photo Blog for some new photos!!

Enjoy!

SHOPPING IS FUN!!!

2008-11-09T14:18:00.000-08:00

Today we did a little secret shopping at Toys R Us. They had one of their Blow Out Sales, and we got a few presents for Paisley. She was with us in the cart, but we did it secretly. I would walk her around an isle, and then creep around, and show Tommy. He would nod if he liked it, or frown and shake his head of he didn't. It was kinda fun. THere were several families doing what we were doing. One family said they did not care if she saw her presents.... that she would forget what they were by then! :) So, today one of our great fins was the Playskool Dance Cam. Paisley is going to FLIP over this. I can't wait to do it with her!!! :)

Then, we got her a "gym" for her Littlest Pet Shop animals, a movie, and another little toy. We are in the process of re doing her play room (again) so we can fit in the new Cherry Blossom Market" that she, ahem, I want. :)

I love Christmas. I love all the shopping it allows me to do- without guilt. :)

3 Paragraphs

2008-11-07T17:46:00.000-08:00

My child is trying to kill me. Again. She will NOT listen to me. She is really pushing my buttons today and I am O-V-E-R it! I get some much needed "Kalyn" time tonight- I get to go scrapbook with Sarah at our local scrapbook store. I know Paisley is pushing her limits even more, because that is what happens when I get some "Me Time". That's how the world works. It makes me appreciate it THAT much more when I am out. :)

I have lost just over 8 lbs. What I've been doing is, I go to the gym 6 days a week and work out for at LEAST 1.5 hours. I burned over 500 calories just on cardio alone yesterday and today. Normally, I work out with my trainer on Tues. & Thurs. and then I do a complete workout all by myself the other 4 days of the week! I LOVE it- and I am glad I do. It's my time! :)

Christmas is fast approaching us this year. I have bought a bunch of presents for family members this past few months- but now the pressure is on. I try to be all finished with Christmas Presents by Thanksgiving. It stresses me out If I don't do it that way. Have you gotten any shopping done? What are your "Shopping Habits"?

P.S PEOPLE!!!! Update your blogs- do something fun..... I'm gettin' bored here! :) (okay, me getting bored happens VERY easily!!!)

Just For Now

2008-11-06T12:28:00.000-08:00

This is only a temporary Title Bar. Once LIz sends me my, ahem, title bar she made for me.... I'll put it up, I swear! :)