I love him. I really do. He is up at his Fire Department saving lives of the people who reside in Campo, and Blvd. County. It is 31 degrees out, snow is falling on the ground, and he is there. Not here. VOLUNTEERING. Some people may think this is bragging, I think it is empowering. I think older women lose sight of what it means to support their husbands and we young-ins surround our hubbies with warm fuzzies. Like a big Bear Hug. Talking positively about or too your husband is one of the many ways to keep a marriage healthy and alive. That and sex. My Mom once read me an article about how listening and talking TO not AT your husband, is one of 5 ways to make a marriage last. Life is about what you put out- not what you take in, and I am so proud to know and SAY to you and the rest of the world without putting other people down, that my husband is the Bomb Diggity or for better words, A BAD ASS.